Picking up a grandchild from day care may seem like a simple task, but you'll need to know the correct procedure.
- Be sure you're on the list.
Day care centers maintain a list of persons who are authorized to pick up children. This measure is necessary to prevent kidnapping and to prevent a non-custodial parent from taking children. Be sure that you have been placed on the list. - Take your identification with you.
Until you are known to the day care staff, you will need to show identification in order to pick up a grandchild. If the staff doesn't ask to see your identification, that is a red flag that says that the facility is not as cautious as it should be. - Don't hold up the line.
Most day care facilities have a pick-up line for those who can get in and out quickly. If you're not familiar with the facility, pass up the pick-up line and park in regular parking. You'll have time to meet the staff and ask questions. - Be aware you may need a code.
Some day care centers have devices that require the entering of a code for admission. Be sure to ask if a code is required at your grandchild's day care. - Don't forget to sign out.
Most day care facilities have a sign-in sheet that helps them track comings and goings. Remember to sign out or the staff could be looking for your grandchild. - Know the schedule.
It's disruptive to pick up a child early as the other children begin expecting to be picked up. It's especially frowned upon to pick up a child during naptime. Know the day care's schedule and use common sense. If you are going to need an early pick-up, let the staff know ahead of time. - Check the cubby.
Most day care facilities have a cubby for each child. Know what items should be taken home, and which need to be left for the next day. Often the child has a pillow and mat for napping which need to stay at the center. If your grandchild has a "lovey" or other special object, be sure to take it with you, or the parents could have a sleepless night. - Don't be afraid to ask questions.
Staffers should welcome your interest. The facility probably has a packet of information for parents. Ask for a copy. If the facility has an on-line newsletter or a website for parents, see if you can be added.
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