The term sandwich generation refers to a generation that is simultaneously caring for parents and children. The term was coined by Dorothy Miller in 1981. Members of the sandwich generation face difficulties in allocating time and money and often describe themselves as being pulled in two directions. Emotional difficulties, especially depression, and marriage conflicts are common problems for those in this situation. July has been designated as Sandwich Generation Month, a time to consider the challenges faced by members of the sandwich generation.
There is some disagreement about the exact parameters of the term: do only those with children still in the home qualify, or does supporting young adult children count? Carol Abaya, who writes and lectures on the subject of the sandwich generation, has identified another type of "sandwich": the Club Sandwich refers to those, usually in their 50s or 60s, who assist in the care of aging parents, adult children and grandchildren. Abaya also uses the term to refer to another group, usually in their 30s and 40s, who deal with young children, aging parents and grandparents.
