The old saying goes, "The man who represents himself has a fool for a lawyer." That may not be true in all cases, especially in relatively simple petitions for visitation rights. Serving as one's own attorney, known as pro per or pro se, has been on the increase recently, according to government statistics. The availability of helpful materials online may be largely responsible for the growth.
Will It Work?
The complexity of a case will determine whether it is feasible to try it pro per/pro se. Here are some questions to ask yourself before making the decision:
- Does a single state have jurisdiction in the case? Cases of questionable jurisdiction are difficult to handle pro per/pro se.
- Are there forms available specifically for grandparent visitation? If not, existing forms will have to be modified or new ones created, and that may require an attorney.
- Do you have the information you need, such as addresses and dates, to file the papers? An attorney is better qualified to deal with any gaps in the information.
- How vigorous can you expect the opposition to be? The fiercer the resistance, the more you need the advice of an attorney.
What Is Involved?
The first place to look for information is the website of the court that has jurisdiction in your case. Some judicial systems have the necessary papers online. You can get a feel for how much work is involved before deciding whether to proceed. Take a look, for example, at the papers required in Pinal County, Arizona. Some courts also have helpful information about representing yourself for pro per/pro se litigants. Take a look at this website from Alameda County, California.
You may wish to provide the court with supplemental papers in addition to those that are required. Susan Hoffman, author of A Precious Bond, recommends that grandparents include three optional items: a formal declaration that is a narrative of the grandparent-grandchild relationship; a date log that records significant times spent with grandchildren; and a photo log that depicts you and your grandchild together over time. The advice of an attorney may be needed to get these documents accepted for consideration.
A Note About Costs
Even if you do not pay an attorney, the process of petitioning for visitation rights is not cost-free. You will have to pay a filing fee. You will have to pay to have papers served on the parties involved in the suit. You may have to pay other court costs.
Separate from the monetary costs, serving as one's own attorney is a drain on one's time, energy and mental equilibrium. Before deciding to take on this burden, one should truly know oneself. Are you a high-energy person who thrives on learning new things and never turns down a challenge? You may be ideally suited to be a pro per/pro se litigant. If, on the other hand, you are an emotional wreck from family conflict, you are unlikely to be able to handle your own litigation. It will be difficult enough to assist an attorney in preparing your case.
Regardless of which path grandparents choose in seeking visitation, it will not be an easy one. Hoffman advises grandparents to "make sure that the time is right and that you are strong enough in every way to go forward."
LEGAL DISCLAIMER: The information on this page is general in nature and should not be regarded as legal advice.